Parenting 2.0: Epilogue
community, culture, failure, parents, society Tagged developmental assets, globalnomads, peter benson, search institute No Comments »Here’s today’s headline:
Teen Dating ‘08: Nude Pix On Cell Phones
The CBS news article describes unabashed teens sending sexually explicit photos and videos of themselves to others. A psychology professor at San Diego State University who studies young people’s trends, is quoted as saying:
“Adolescents are not known for thinking things through - that’s a generational constant,” she said. “Now, with the technology that is out there, instead of taking a picture and passing it around the classroom, it’s online, which is a whole different ball game. (Teens) don’t see it that way.”
It reminds of the video series on YouTube, Think Before You Post. There is absolutely no control over the content once it is sent, as the article briefly touches on.
Where are the parents in all of this? Where is the village that is required to raise a child? It would seem like there are a large number of children raising themselves in these digital times. Kids, more than ever, need involved and caring parents, teachers, and significant others in their lives like never before. Peter Benson, from the Search Institute, has a short article with some great information titled, “What Happened to My Little Angel”. See also the document, Building Assets for Youth. Kids need us more than ever! Here are a few of the Search Institute’s findings when it comes to adult responsibilities for growing healthy children:
- helping young people feel loved, supported, and accepted;
- giving young people appropriate boundaries and structures;
- providing constructive, healthy activities for young people;
- helping young people stay committed to education and learning;
- nurturing positive, caring values in young people;
- building basic life skills and positive views of themselves and the future.
These are things that happen week after week and year after year in families, congregations, schools, and communities. These are the things that make a difference! It makes a real difference when . . .
- parents make it a top priority to spend time and talk with their teenagers;
- adults in a congregation or from the community volunteer to be mentors for youth;
- youth ministry programs provide positive activities that involve youth;
- young people learn how much they have to contribute to their community and world through volunteering to serve others;
- teenagers get involved in positively influencing public policy;
- schools learn about assets they can offer youth and seek to strengthen those assets for all students.
We can’t abandon kids. We must engage them in positive and healthy ways, in the classroom, at home, and in the community - this includes the digital community (see Freerice.com or GlobalNomads). We must empower them and equip them for success in a highly connected, complicated digital age.






